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How to build sexual confidence and take control of your sex life
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How to build sexual confidence and take control of your sex life
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Agartala, Jan 20 (TIWN): The old cliché “age is just a number” recently regained some significance after an award-winning French author said he was incapable of loving a woman aged 50 or older.

(Being sexually confident is one of the most attractive personality traits, but building it is not easy. It starts with stripping yourself bare – both literally and figuratively – and learning how to be your own biggest fan)

His comment unsurprisingly infuriated women of all ages across the globe.

Yann Moix, 50 himself, said that women in their fifties are “invisible” to him as he prefers younger women’s bodies.

I do not intend to give Moix any more column space as he does not deserve further attention from the majority of us who value womanhood and treat all genders equally and respectfully in all aspects of life.

I must reiterate that the adage “age is just a number” still holds true because you are as old as you feel. What is important is to be confident in oneself, as it affects how we behave in general and connects to our sexuality. Being sexually confident is one of the most attractive personality traits, and it applies to everyone.

When we are young, being sexy is more of an external behaviour. It is about being more showy because sexiness tends to be drawn from one’s appearance, and perhaps even their dress sense. As we get older, sexiness becomes an inner force that makes us glow from within and lets our true sexuality shine through. Having sexual confidence transcends age and beauty, at least in the conventional sense. When one is confident during sex, age becomes less of an issue. But, of course, this kind of confidence does not come easily. Some people seem to have it naturally, while others might need to nurture it through experience or by follow a tried-and-tested approach.

To build sexual confidence, you must first understand yourself from the inside out, which includes your physique, mentality and emotional maturity.

Being sexually confident can also mean that you are both a pleaser and one that receives pleasure in the bedroom. It allows you to take control of your sex life because you are confident enough to use your power to change and improve things for both of you.

It is also about speaking up and communicating with your partner openly and honestly, because your pleasure is just as important as that of your partner. But remember to avoid being judgmental when you are discussing sexual issues, as some topics may be highly sensitive and divisive. That means accepting that some suggestions, and perhaps unexpected criticisms, are part of the deal. And hopefully you can come up with solutions that are acceptable to both.

 

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